Alleged Boston Business Attorney Catfished On Tinder: Alleged 44 Year old with 2 Kids Dates 40 Year Old Homosexual from Tinder Who Refused To Tell Her That He is LGBTQ
PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT:
I AM ACTUALLY QUITE CONCERNED ABOUT THE MENTAL HEALTH OF THE MAN ENGAGING IN THIS BIZARRE ONLINE ACTIVITY. HE IS FIXATED AND OBSESSED WITH MULTIPLE APPS...RUINED OUR OTHERWISE GREAT VACATIONS THIS PAST SUMMER.
HE SAID I SHOULD "CONGRATULATE" HIM ON 'FINDING A DATE" ON THE SLEAZY TINDER SITE.
I WANTED TO VOMIT.
THIS IS A DEEPLY TROUBLED MAN THAT, MY HAND ON THE BIBLE, NEEDS SERIOUS PSYCHIATRIC HELP. HE ALSO SHOULDN'T BE ENGAGING IN THIS BEHAVIOR SINCE I AM THE ONE WHO HAD TO MONITOR HIM WHEN HE WAS SUICIDAL IN AUGUST, NOT AN EASY CHORE.
GOING ONLINE TO FIND 'DATES" IS LIKE PICKING A CARTON OF MILK UP AT THE GROCERY STORE, THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS THAT THE MILK CARTON DOESN'T LIE, CHEAT, EXAGGERATE AND CATFISH! SO IT'S A BETTER BARGAIN.
THE YOUNG MAN AT 40 NEEDS HELP; SERIOUS THERAPY....HE HATES EVERYONE, FROM MOMMY, DADDY, BOSS #1, BOSS/LANDLORD #2, ROOMMATE, ALL THE BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS WHICH ARE BROKEN BY HIS LASHING OUT. I MADE IT A MISSION TO HELP HIM, MONITOR HIS MENTAL ILLNESS, BE THE FRIEND HE CLAIMED HE NEVER HAD, AND HE WAS COLD AND CRUEL OVER THE ONLINE DATING BULLSHIT, SENT ME HIDEOUS TEXTS THAT WERE TOTALLY ABUSIVE. SO I BLOCKED HIM. THEN - WHEN HE DIDN'T WANT TO LOSE ME, AFTER I TOLD HIM GOODBYE 4 TIMES, I TRIED TO BE FRIENDS WITH HIM AGAIN, BUT THE ABUSE LASTED ABOUT SIX DAYS....SO I MADE IT VERY UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE TRUTH. THOUGHT HE WOULD BE A STAND-UP GUY AND NOT WANT TO LOSE THE BEST FRIEND HE'S HAD IN HIS ENTIRE LIFE. BUT HIS ABUSE ESCALATED. AND HE THINKS HE CAN LIE TO PEOPLE ON TINDER? PLEASE. HE IS IN MY PRAYERS, BUT IT IS OBVIOUS HE'S LIKE A RUNAWAY TRAIN WITH THESE DATING APPS, AND I CANNOT HELP HIM IN REGARDS TO THAT.
GOD BLESS, MY FRIEND, I HOPE YOU GET THE HELP THAT YOU NEED, BECAUSE I GAVE EVERY BIT OF CONCERN AND TRUST AND YOU KICKED ME IN THE TEETH FOR MY LOYALTY TO YOU. VERY SAD SITUATION. THIS SITE IS 'TOUGH LOVE" TO - HOPEFULLY - BRING HIM TO HIS SENSES.
I COULD HAVE POSTED THIS ON AN ANONYMOUS SITE, BUT I'M FIRM IN MY BELIEF THAT HE NEEDS HELP, AND POSTED ON A SITE WHERE IT IS EASY TO FIGURE OUT WHO I AM. I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE. I REALLY DO CARE, AND THIS SITE IS CREATED WITH HIS MENTAL HEALTH IN MIND, BUT HE HAS TO STOP THIS DANGEROUS ENGAGEMENT AND MOCKING PEOPLE ON A VARIETY OF APPS....IT IS JUST PLAIN WRONG.
HOPEFULLY, SOMEONE WILL BE GENTLE AND MAKE IT RIGHT....MY MESSAGES ARE NOT GETTING THROUGH.
TOUGH LOVE IS NOT EASY, AND THIS SITE - IF IT LOOKS UGLY - IS A REFLECTION OF HIS BEHAVIOR, A SITE THAT IS BEING UTILIZED LIKE A BUCKET OF COLD WATER AND MIRROR OF HIS BIZARRE ACTIONS TO TRY TO BRING THIS FELLOW TO HIS SENSES.
HIS HURTING PEOPLE ONLINE IS NOT THE REAL GUY THAT I KNOW, THERE'S - OBVIOUSLY - SOMETHING FUNDAMENTALLY WRONG WITH HARASSING STRANGERS VIA ONLINE DATING APPS, SOMETHING A PSYCHIATRIST IS BETTER EQUIPPED TO HANDLE THAN A GOOD FRIEND THAT HE ALSO ABUSES AND REFUSES TO LISTEN TO. HE HAS LASHED OUT ANGRILY SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE I AM RIGHT.
IF SOMEONE CALLED ME A 'CATFISHER" I WOULD LAUGH. LIKE I SAID, MY NAME IS EASY TO TRACE HERE, AND LOVE ME OR HATE ME, PEOPLE KNOW I SPEAK MY MIND AND DON'T PUT UP WITH ANY NONSENSE. I ALSO HAVE SUPPORT SYSTEMS ADVISING ME TO CONSIDER OPTIONS ON HOW TO BEST LIVE MY LIFE AND WISH THAT HE WOULD DO THE SAME.
THIS IS TOUGH STUFF, BUT I DON'T SEE ANOTHER AVENUE TO GET HIM TO STOP HIS DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR...BEHAVIOR DESTRUCTIVE TO THE ONLINE VICTIMS, TO THOSE AROUND HIM (INCLUDING ME,) AND, MOST IMPORTANT, TO HIMSELF.
WITH HONESTY AND BLESSINGS, THE FRIEND.
HEY LADY, YOU GOT CAT-FISHED
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HER TINDER LOVE IS TELLING PEOPLE THAT HER EX HUSBAND ALLEGEDLY GAVE HER A SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE: HPV
WHAT A BETRAYAL OF CONFIDENCE, THAT'S HOW DUMB AND DESPERATE THESE CREEPY TINDER INFESTATION WOMEN ARE.
NO SELF-WORTH
TOTALLY LACKING IN THEIR OWN WOMANHOOD. TO GO ONLINE AND NOT KNOW WHO IS OUT THERE.
Utterly lacking in integrity, stupid woman so desperate she will put up with that? Really?
WHAT A THING TO BRAG ABOUT? UGGH!
IT MUST BE TRUE LOVE!
CATFISHING: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catfishing
The practice may be used for financial gain, to compromise a victim in some way, as a way to intentionally upset
a victim, or for wish fulfillment. Catfishing television shows have
been produced, often featuring victims who wish to identify their
catfisher. Celebrities have been targeted, which has brought press
attention to catfishing practices.
History
The modern term originated from the 2010 American documentary Catfish. The documentary follows Nev Schulman, the executive producer, as a victim of catfishing. He had cultivated a relationship with what he thought was a 19-year-old girl from the Midwestern United States. The woman with whom he had been communicating was actually a 40-year-old housewife. (SAME as if a gay man is posing as a heterosexual, then humiliating a female date when she wanted to have a second date, the same man alleges that he put her down, humiliated her, and walked away. Sick power and control over unsuspecting catfished women!)
Meanwhile Bozo was waiting for her as she had to attend to her (2 adult?) daughters for 2 Weeks and allegedly she went offline. SHE WAS PROBABLY DATING SOMEONE ELSE YOU IDIOT! HAPPENS ALL THE TIME!
It’s been
over a week. How long should I wait before I cut my losses and move on?
Am I being naive thinking this could actually work? I really liked this
woman.
A. She’s not asking you to wait, so assume she’s out of the picture. Maybe she’ll be in a different place someday, but for now, it’s a no — and now is all that matters.
40 YEAR OLD BOZO WAS ALSO HIGHLY MISOGYNISTIC CLAIMING HE WOULD SWIPE AWAY FROM THE 'FAT CHICKS" AS HE CALLED THEM, AND COMPLAINED THAT ONLY 'FAT CHICKS" AND MEN WERE RESPONDING TO HIM....DUH....HEAVY SET WOMEN ARE CLASSIC ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A HOMOSEXUAL BOYFRIEND....
HERE ARE SOME FACTS:
A GOOD FRIEND DISGUSTED BY THE DESPICABLE BEHAVIOR ASKED THE HOMOSEXUAL:
'WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO TELL HER THAT YOU ARE GAY?"
HIS REPLY: "when she tells me that she had a lesbian experience"
So lies of omission help him delude himself that he's being "honest." If so, why would he fly into a rage on 9/11/22 at a good friend for suggesting he was "catfishing" by not being honest about his homosexuality? A rage, and not the only time he blows up at people.
Not being honest led to his good friend initially blocking him on social media. The 40 year old was frantic not to lose his only real friend, who told him two days later "goodbye." That friend again blocking him on social media 10/13/22.
He flipped out on a good friend trying to put some sense into him, the dangers of online dating and the revenge factor when desperate, crazed, lonely women find out that they've been LIED TO.
when I asked him when he was going to come clean with the 44 year old "Boston business attorney" he said "there is a time and a place."
Which is, of course, NEVER! Unless she reads this website to him and gets herself some therapy that she, obviously, needs for going on a sleaze-fest like TINDER. Unless she is every bit as mentally challenged, and as crude as some of these essays are, they ARE said lovingly and out of concern.
These online Apps are a curse and lead to a LOT of misery for people. They should be outlawed.
Plus, why would a 44 year old from a failed marriage want to date someone :
a)on food stamps
b)not in an economic world where he could help take care of two kids
c)whose house is an absolute mess....a gay older friend had to wash his damn dishes for him!
d)claims to have "clinical depression" with suicidal thoughts
e)Claims to have A.D.D.
f)has a history of hurting people who treat him kindly and the last friend he is down to was just released from REHAB ...and he alleges he stayed up all night keeping that guy from committing suicide.
g)has serious RAGE issues, documented by a witness on August 25, September 11, September 17, 2022.
h)Serious mommy and daddy issues; they purchase him something VERY expensive and he ridicules his father saying it was done out of guilt. Real good catch, lady! For an attorney, if you are one, you don't do your homework online, do you?
Good catch, "attorney" Lady....you've been CATFISHED!
He claims he's been online dating since he was 16, that's twenty-four years for the 40 year old who acts like he's 7 years of age.
He goes on multiple apps humiliating women and men, allegedly (as told to this reporter) mocking men on Grindr, recently allegedly meeting a young Asian twenty-year old boy for coffee in Malden, and then saying the kid has "bad breath." The starry-eyed youngster allegedly helping him with his business.
Meanwhile the doozy on Tinder has no idea he's meeting men off of other dating APPS.
The young Asian man he went to the Encore Casino with ...and who had sex with him, he actually met from work, according to his alleged story, and then had bad things to say about him.
But the Tinder floozy alleged "attorney" has no idea of his alleged sexual escapades...
CHECK OUT THIS JERK ON TINDER
Tinder creep Thomas McGuirk whose 'disgusting' messages to women online shocked Australia FINALLY breaks his silence to admit he 'struggles with rejection' - but insists he's a 'good, decent person'
- Ebonie Sanderson and Erin Hinds, both 26, publicly shamed Thomas McGuirk
- IT worker was outed for sending degrading and abusive messages on Tinder
- Six other women have since shared similar experiences with McGuirk, 28
- He was sacked from his job after his boss heard a voice recording of the abuse
- Now he issues a grovelling apology but claims he's a a 'good, decent person'
- Have you been harassed by McGuirk? Email tips@mailonline.com
Oct 01, 2020 · Tech worker Thomas McGuirk, 28, was sacked from his job after sending disgusting abuse to at least seven women he met on Tinder after they refused to meet him Mr McGuirk said he had quit the many...
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TOM MCGUIRK, SUPERSTAR CREEP ON TINDER..... SICK AND PERVERTED IS WHAT IT IS AND TYPICAL OF ONLINE DATING
Sydney man Thomas McGuirk speaks out, ‘deeply sorry’ for ‘vile’ Tinder messages
The Sydney man fired over “vile” messages he sent women who rejected him has spoken for the first time about his “embarrassing” actions.
On Friday, Ebonie Sanderson shared audio messages she received from a man named Tom in which he could be heard calling her a “disgusting fat pig” after she said she declined to meet him for sex.
Her post was shared by well-known feminists Clementine Ford and Nadia Bokody and it quickly went viral. By Saturday, 28-year-old Thomas McGuirk was identified by his employer and subsequently sacked.
Now
the software engineer from Bondi, in Sydney’s eastern suburbs, has
spoken exclusively to news.com.au as he wanted to apologise to the women
involved as he recognised his behaviour was wrong.
RELATED: Why Tinder is the sleaziest online dating app
His employer – who identified McGuirk from his voice and profile photo – made the swift decision to let him go, stating was there was “no place in our workplace for someone who treats women with that amount of disrespect”.
Mr McGuirk – who is now seeking professional help – said he was grateful for the support of his friends and family who told him he needed to “learn” from the awful situation.
“They know this isn’t me, I am a good, decent person. This is a huge mistake and they told me I need to learn from it.”
He could be heard in the clips saying: “You’re actually a fat f***ing pig. You know that? Thanks. You’re f***ing ugly. Your a** looks OKAY and you would have been one f**k. You would have been just one f**k because you’re a disgusting fat pig.”
Why Tinder is the sleaziest online dating app
A Sydney woman was horrified to find her man had decided to “host his own Bachelor” and bring his other conquests on their date. https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/dating/why-tinder-is-the-sleaziest-online-dating-app/news-story/db79daec79229ba4c407388bd81a02d2 Now before you all slide into my DM’s with stories about your cousin who ended up marrying their Tinder date, trust me I KNOW! We’ve all heard the fairytales, but I still maintain, Tinder is dead.
How do I know? Let me explain …
At a recent girls dinner we were swapping dating app stories and after a quick tally, it turns out Tinder stood out as the cesspit of f**kboys. My friend discovered her stepbrother was on the app. Her MARRIED stepbrother.
Another friend went on a date with a Tinder guy whose girlfriend slid into her DMs to inform her that he lived with her and they were expecting a child!
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